asking why we weren’t helping her great-grandparents.I finally stood my ground, but now I’m the family scapegoat. My mother-in-law has spread rumors that I’m hoarding money,

and some relatives have stopped speaking to me. I’m left wondering if they’ll take legal action or continue using my kids to guilt-trip me. All I want is to protect my husband’s legacy for our children, but I wonder—am I the bad guy?