It was the first time in a while that the whole family, including my stepmom’s parents, had come together for a meal. My actual mom passed away several years ago. And even though life has moved on in many ways, her memory is still very present for me—especially on days like this.

I’d put on the earrings she gave me, like I always do when I want to feel close to her. I didn’t expect them to become the center of a tense moment.