During dinner, my stepmom’s parents asked me, “Where did you get those lovely earrings?” I smiled softly and said, “My mom gave them to me before she passed. I wear them every day to feel close to her.”

My stepmom quickly interrupted, “She’s not your mom anymore! I’m the one who raised you.” I laughed and said, “Are you trying to pretend you care about me? You’re not doing a great job.”Her face dropped. She left the room. My dad told me later that I embarrassed her in front of the whole family.Now she’s told my dad I’m “stuck in the past” and making her feel unwanted. He wants me to “just move on.” But I don’t think remembering my mom means I’m not moving forward. Am I being unfair?