When my wife found out, she called me selfish and cruel, accusing me of using the excuse of “honoring our son’s life” as a way to go on vacation abroad. Maybe I shouldn’t have asked her to join me, as she was both furious and devastated.

Now, I’m in another country, and she’s texted me saying she wants a divorce. What should I do?Thank you for reaching out to us! We understand your concerns and would like to offer a few suggestions that might help.